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Mom, Where Should The Ambulance Take Me?

By Lisa Batten Kunkleman

I answered my cell and heard, “Mom, I kinda dislocated my knee. Which hospital should the ambulance take me to?”

If only our son Sam’s kneecap were simply dislocated and not shattered into six pieces when he fell while doing pull-ups, that would have been almost delightful. This event was the latest straw added to our camel named Life.

We all experience times when overlapping stressful events threaten to send us over the edge of patience and composure. I try to silence the voice inside that’s saying, “Give up, curl up, and have a good cry since there’s little you can do anyway.”

I say, “Phooey” to that kind of thinking. In fact, I often feel energized as if from above when calamity strikes or attention is needed. Like endorphins kick into overdrive. “Let’s do this,” says the other voice in my head.

The past month falls into an overload category, with a touch of calamity mixed in. Here are a few of our endorphin-raising events:

#1 Hurricane Matthew flooded the eastern part of our state, which included my hometown, stranding my home-loving mom with us, one hundred and sixty miles inland. She came with lots of my begging just for the weekend to ride out the hurricane. Instead, she was stuck at our busy house for two weeks when the main road and many alternate roads back to her peaceful home were still in flood stage or washed away. Two weeks is a long visit for a woman who believes that after three days both fish and company smell. She headed home as soon as possible to survey her property damage.

#2 Following a long year of dreadful feline cancer we had to put our sixteen-year-old cat to sleep. Her cancer may have won but she sure hung in there as our lap cat eating like a horse until the end.

#3 I had a sensitive temporary crown checked out and dang if it didn’t require a root canal. The endodontist (that’s a dental surgeon) sang along to seventies rock the whole time, warning me, “My singing will be the most painful part of the procedure.” Maybe, but his bill was plenty painful.
A few days later, I relaxed into my regular dentist’s chair as he installed a new crown on the tooth that had the root canal. Finally, my sensitive mouth could be pain free.

#4 Our hound dog, Sadie, who had been having huge lake-like accidents in the dining room, got an ultrasound of her bladder. Sure enough, she had bladder stones. The plan was to flush them out or remove them surgically while also removing three skin cancers. In her sedated state, the cancers were removed and the vet stood her up on hind legs and squeezed her bladder. Five bladder stones washed out. As a bonus, she got her nails done while sleeping. If only they had cleaned her teeth and given her a bath.

#5 One daughter, Sarah, who is one of our triplets, dislocated her shoulder while driving her car. Now she receives physical therapy twice a week.

#6 Another of the triplets, our son Joe, at college across the state, also has a shoulder that pops out and needs surgery over the Christmas holidays. The last time it popped out, he was doing pull-ups. That’s crazy. Both our sons do risky sports. They do flips, climb rocks and trees five stories up, and both of them ended up hurting themselves doing pull-ups. What a wild coincidence.

#7 Now back to the ambulance call. Our son Sam crashed down onto his knees when his pull-up bar came off the dorm doorframe. He crushed his kneecap on the concrete floor then took a ride in an ambulance to an Emergency Room near our house. I tried to meet him there and was told repeatedly at the front desk, “He’s not in the computer so he hasn’t arrived yet. Maybe he’s at a different hospital.”

Fortunately, a woman from the back hall came out and heard my dilemma. She said, ”We have a young man back there with a knee injury. I can take you to him.”

Sam’s knee looked like a pointy bird beak, folded up to his chest. Tears filled my eyes after I saw the glisten in his. Sam, our child with the extra high pain tolerance, was suffering indescribable pain.

Fast forward to late afternoon with all of our family, his nurse, and the ER doc in disbelief that Sam would go home and surgery would be postponed for ten days so swelling and inflammation could go down.

The first hurdle to jump toward home was to straighten the rigid knee that caused horrible pain with the slightest move, let alone stretching it out.

With Sam on all the IV narcotics and nausea drugs legally permissible without it being euthanasia, the orthopedic doctor, blond, and looking about eighteen, worked with Sam’s male nurse to gently pull the leg out straight. Unbelievable. Our disbelief and frustration turned to relief as Sam said his pain level was about a six instead of a nine. He was saving level ten for after the surgery.

Nursing our son through the excruciating pain from surgery, which was more like a level fifteen than a ten when the nerve blocks wore off, we’re counting our blessings. Sam’s pain will pass and he will eventually walk on his own again.

We’re no longer tending our very sick cat and our Sadie dog had good biopsy reports and stopped having accidents in the house. My mouth has no sensitivity now. Our daughter’s shoulder is improving and we know more about dealing with surgery and pain management. Hopefully we will be better prepared for our son Joe’s shoulder surgery and recovery. We should be experts by then.

Oh, did I mention we are in the middle of remodeling our kitchen right here at the holidays?

26 thoughts on “Mom, Where Should The Ambulance Take Me?

  1. I hope that all of you are pieced back together very soon )

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  2. Awwww 🙂 i don’t know if i should feel bad for all this making me grin. well no, on second thoughts, i’m okay with it. ‘ latest straw added to this camel called life ‘ had me. i love camels. and life. and you combined the two unordainairly. 😛

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  3. Thinking of you dear Lisa! That is a lot to deal with. You and your family are in my heart, thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery for all! Have a blessed thanksgiving and know that you all are loved!

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    • Oh how great it is to hear from you. I hope you and yours have a delightful Thanksgiving and Christmas. Your holidays will be different for sure. I bet y’all share lots of memories this year.

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  4. [J] Life’s a Rollercoaster. As to the new kitchen – don’t even THINK about moving the position of the fixed appliances – especially anything involving plumbing!

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  5. Glad all on the mend. Triplets.. wow. Happy Thanksgiving!

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  6. oh wow! You are a role model for me…I admire how energized you become in the face of calamity!

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  7. Boy, it sounds like this year is going out like a lion for you and your family, Lisa. Let’s hope the new year comes in like a lamb. Your son’s injury sounds so painful…praying for a speedy recovery. Wishing you and yours a wonderful Thanksgiving.

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  8. Ah, Lisa. What an amazing life you lead. Motherhood is grand, isn’t it?

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  9. God love you, is all I’ve got for you. Sometimes I feel as if a dark cloud is hovering over my life, but obviously, yours too. Here’s to better months and health ahead. Happy Thanksgiving. @sheilamgood at Cow Pasture Chronicles

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  10. Oh, Lisa, as if Hurricane Matthew wasn’t enough! Kitchen remodeling should be a breeze after all that. Wishing you and your family a serene, peaceful and calm holiday season.

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  11. Oh, I do know that feeling of wanting to give up and curl into a ball when way too much happens at once. But yeah, we don’t. Because I think that would leave us feeling even worse knowing that all this stuff was causing yet more pain and discomfort. And as you describe, if we can just hold on, it does all get resolved. Though I’m sorry to hear about your kitty. Still, that’s an excellent age.
    So now you can focus on the kitchen remodel. 😀

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  12. My husband can’t slice a strawberry or unpack our suitcase without a trip to the ER. I’m not kidding. He has had the tip of his finger stitched on too many times to count. I think, “what are you doing? Thrusting your hand into the duffle bag with all your might, so that instead of helping around the house you can rest in the ER?” Ya ya ya…I’m onto you mister.

    Many what a crazy time though, seriously, I feel like everyone is feeling it this year, the challenges, but you seem to be handling it in stride! 🙂

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